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Weekly Update: Jan. 04-10, 2009

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

This past week was a rough one for Dang and I, for we had to go back to work after a week off. You know how that feels- not so good. Hehe. But, as most weeks go, it was over before we knew it.

It was a cold week- bitterly cold. As a matter-of-fact, I think it may be the coldest I’ve ever experienced in South Korea. Dang did wonderfully, I’m the one who it made hurt. The cold weather cuts right to the bone for me these days, especially in my hands. Too many rocks smashing hands and fingers? No circulation, anymore?

Sunday found Dang and I shopping at Bangpo, Dang’s favorite place in Seoul I think. It is taking some time to build Dang’s wardrobe. Poor girl had little in the way of clothing when she came to Korea, and I can’t stand to think of her not having enough. I do complain some; that’s my husbandly duty, right? In my heart, though, I want my little girl to be dressed nicely. I finally got her to buy some shoes that were cut and sexy… she has a thing for furry “Eskimo” shoes. I don’t know why the fascination with all things furry, but it was a real job deflecting her from the furry boots.

On Saturday, Dang and I went to our first Korean language class. It’s at one of the local woman’s universities. They are taught by Korean majors, and it is but one a couple thousand won a lesson. We are starting at the very bottom, but I’m looking forward to it. So is Dang. We learned  a little of the alphabet; it’s a pretty straight-forward system of writing- quite sensible.

Also, and most importantly, Sat. was the anniversary of the day Dang and I first saw each other face-to-face. One year ago, I left my home in Tennessee for my new life and new wife in Asia. It’s been quite a year. I miss my old home and family, but I wouldn’t change a  thing, for I’m blessed to be where I am in my life married to my baby girl.

Well, until next week. Be good, kind, and healthy.

One Year Ago Today…

Saturday, January 10th, 2009

It was one year ago today that I and my wife first came face-to-face. One year ago today, I left my home and my family to find my wife, my life.

It has been one of the most eventful years of my life- exciting, distressing, peaceful, longing, fulfilling, lonely, accompanied, sensible, nonsensical. There were times when I was teacher, times when I was student. There were times I wondered if I were going to make it, times when I felt as if I could conquer the world.

Sure, times have been hard, but I wouldn’t trade one experience. I wouldn’t trade a single tear shed in lonliness for a month of tear-free days. I wouldn’t trade a single night feeling lost for a hundred in my warm bed in Tennessee. I wouldn’t trade or change a thing, for, though it was hard, every experience of every day has made me a better, stronger man. And, more importantly, the lonely nights and tears brought my wife and I togehter. We had to fight for our life together.

When I think of the past year, the sufferings, I can’t forget that those led to the greatest peace I’ve ever known, the happiness of my life, the most fulfilling aspect of my life- my wife, Dang.

I’m a man full of love and purpose. I have a real reason to live. Every day now, I awaken full of hope for the day. I awaken to my sleeping wife in my arms and the tears seem like a distant star who died a long time ago who is but a memory.

We have a good life together, full of excitement and simple pleasures. From where I stand now, I can say…. it has been a good year.

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